Q. There has been a great deal of talk in political forums lately about certain individuals meeting the criteria for narcissism. It is a very interesting educational opportunity and the following article by Leon F. Seltzer Ph.D may shed some much needed enlightenment.
A. Narcissism: Why It’s So Rampant in Politics
Narcissist politicians don’t serve the people: they serve themselves
Consider that two of the things narcissists most desire are money (i.e., lots of money) and power (the more the better). Consider also that many of the individuals entering the political arena have already made their fortune, or inherited it. So what typically drives them is a lust for power, prestige, status and authority. Probably their most coveted need of all is their superiority to others.
One of the primary characteristics of narcissists is their exaggerated sense of entitlement. Exploiting their privileged position in such a manner hardly leaves them plagued with guilt. In general, guilt isn’t an emotion they’re prone to. How could they be if they feel entitled to the objects of their desire?
Ironically, despite the steadfast ethical values they profess, these politicians can be viewed as “moral relativists” in that what they adamantly deem immoral for others is yet somehow acceptable for themselves. We have seen many examples of this behavior, i.e., a gay – but still-in-the-closet-politician striving to pass laws designed to restrict gay rights, the politician who initiates tough laws on adult sexual predators is found in a motel with a child.
Narcissist-politicians’ immense appetite for flattery, praise, and adulation is also abundantly gratified. Quite independent of professional achievement, they expect to be treated as superior. Their fragile psyche demands being admired and looked up to. In some instances, the chief reason for remaining an incumbent isn’t to fulfill any idealistic aspirations. Its to “secure” their inflated self-regard.
Bob McDonnell, the ex-governor of Virginia was interviewed recently on 60 minutes. He and his wife accepted $177,000 worth of gifts and loans from a wealthy man seeking the governor’s help on a business venture. He was convicted for corruption but the Supreme Court later reversed the decision. What stood out about the interview was McDonnell’s aloof, entitled and self-serving attitude and his belief that being governor should come with extra special perks…….he deserved it……he was special.
If you throw in lack of ability to accept any type of criticism, not being able to accept responsibility for their own behavior…….its never their fault…..pathological lying………total lack of empathy (if you see it, its an act) you have yourself a narcissist.
It is important to say that not all politicians have narcissistic personality disorder, many may have traits but not enough for the diagnosis. But it is safe to say that we are seeing some who cannot hide their mental illness.
Vicki L Mayfield, M.Ed., R.N., LMFT Marriage and Family Therapy Oklahoma City
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